“Only Thing We Have to Fear Is Fear Itself” Franklin D. Roosevelt
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When I first started publically writing I was fearful of what others, especially those more talented than I, would think.  Grammar is not a strength of mine.  Neither is spelling.  They never have been. (*side note – I even spelled grammar wrong while writing this!) :-/

When I was young I had years where I received nearly all 100s on my spelling tests.  Little did anyone know I was a TERRIBLE speller!  I had my teachers fooled, and when they would move me up to the highest spelling group I think my Mother was both happy for me, and at the same time thinking Oh Great!  She was the one that was there with me behind the scenes working on my spelling words all week long, every single day until test time.

It is one example of how working hard can triumph over natural ability and make you successful.  The willingness and determination to focus, and do the best job that you can, has the ability to turn your dreams into reality.  Often success is not looked at fairly.  It is perceived as a snap shot in time, when the reality of it is years of practice, and years of focus and commitment to a craft.  It isn’t about being perfect or the best, it is about pouring your heart into it and giving it all you’ve got.

Letting fear stop me would have caused me huge regret, and that right there is motivation enough to drive me forward and help me push through it. 
There are always going to be people that are better at everything than me, but that doesn’t make me or what I have to share worthless, and I certainly should not let that remove chunks of my self esteem.  I have learned that if I am passionate about something and I am focused and committed to doing the best I can, and open to striving for continual growth, I CAN be successful!

There were many times I was dubbed an over achiever, a term that I have come to dislike.  Over achiever to me is nothing more than someone else setting limitations on you.  How can anyone know or measure the extent to what you are capable of?  Don’t let them!

Never let the fact that there are always going to be people more talented than you paralyze you from pursing your passions whole heartedly.  You will see in time that it is a big wide world out there, and amazingly enough people will connect with what you have to uniquely offer.  Don’t compare or let fear of not being ‘good enough’ stop you.  Let the work of others you view more talented than you inspire you to grow into the best you.  It is all perspective anyway, and there is no better YOU!

I believe that what makes me successful, despite all my weaknesses, is my innate and strong desire to constantly grow into the best version of myself in all aspects of my life, from the work that I do to the person that I am. 

Always, Always let your heart triumph over fear!

Happy Weekend, Friends!

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02/11/2011 7:40pm

Hi--thanks so much for stopping by my blog today. I absolutely love yours and the positive message you convey plus recipes, traveling and more. I can't wait to read more!

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02/11/2011 9:53pm

Goodness! I need to print this off and put it on my fridge. What you said is so true and so important. Thank you for sharing your heart with me!

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02/12/2011 5:05am

Wonderful post.

I do believe in the power of determination and hard work. Many times even if I don't know how to do a thing or accomplish a goal, I can *find* a way to learn or make my own path. A cross between stubbornness and determination? I don't know, but I know that (for me), focused efforts and faith can push me beyond my comfort zone and open up new doors. It's hard to take a chance, I'm feeling that way now. But I'm committed, and know there are no limits to what my life may bring.

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02/12/2011 7:08am

best version of us all the time :)

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02/12/2011 11:11am

@Tiffany, @Monet, @Stretching My Imagination, @Jassy,

Often the posts that come from my heart are the scariest to share. The ones where you take a deep breath before hitting publish. Your kind words and encouragement never cease to amaze me, and turn my fear into heartfelt smiles and warmth. Thank you <3

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aw, love this post! reminded me of Einstein and the whole "99% perspiration" thing. i'd say the best things in life take work, but it's definitely worth it in the end. imho. :)

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02/13/2011 9:04am

Thank you Angela! :)

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