The best way to be friendly with Father Time is to forget about him.
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The more I become acquainted with the concept of time, the less I want to be friends.  When we focus on time we lose the most precious moment in time, now.  In terms of time, we are never where we want to be next, we are never satisfied; we feel the enormity of lack.  Not only that, when we concentrate on time we can become stuck in the past.  Re-playing, re-living all that no longer is.  We are not our past, we are now.  In this very moment we are whole. 

When we play the what-if future games in our mind, we basically succumb to the mind’s insanity.  Recognizing that is the best way to propel yourself back into the present moment.  In the present moment life slows down, and is more peaceful and fulfilling.

Focusing on time means your life passes you by much more quickly.  If you want to enjoy your life more completely, say farewell to Father Time and use it only as much as you absolutely need to in order to function in life.  Take a leap of faith and immerse yourself wholeheartedly in your present activity.  You are nowhere else but where you are right now.  Give time little attention and use it only when you really need it.

Practicing removing the ever ticking clock allows creativity to flow through you more freely.  It allows love to emerge from you more deeply.  It opens your mind and soul, creating space for more good to come in.

I think the best way to stretch out time is to pay as little attention to it as you can.  In this sense, age really does become only a number.  You are lighter and younger on the inside, which will shine through to your outer physical self. 

The less you pay attention to time, the more you become conscious of right now- this very moment, where you will find more peace, pleasure and happiness.  Living in the future or past means paying too much attention to time.  As often as I can, I try to think only about right now.  Problems, fear, and worries fade away when you do that, leaving more space for joy.

The inspiration for this post came after reading Living Longer by Stretching Psychological Time by Scott H Young

Please share your thoughts!  What do you think about the concept of time?  Do you find time helpful, a hindrance, or both?

 


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06/21/2011 7:26am

Thanks for the thoughts on time. I'm a teacher and see kids watching the clock all the time. I see toher kids who don't and you are so right, the ones watching the time complain baout how slow the clock is moving while the kids who don;t watch the clock complain that we ran out of time too fast!

I look at time and living presently this way: Look at the past long enough to learn from it. Look into the future long enough to plan for it. Live the rest of your time now to enjoy the proccess and experience the joy of passion and meaning and purpose in all you do and in the people that fill our lives.

Thanks for a wonderful post!

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06/21/2011 7:29am

What thought provoking ideas. It is a good way to start the day. I hope the day treats you well. Blessings...Mary

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06/21/2011 11:15am

Hindrance! We're happiest when we live without time.

Of course, we'd never make it to anything 'on time' then so I guess it's helpful too?

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06/22/2011 8:42am

maybe i should try forgetting father time nowadays when i have a lot of things to do...to keep me calm and so i could do all of my tasks efficiently :)

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06/22/2011 1:43pm

I think both. I think being aware of time is important to put the idea of "no time" in perspective! Does that make sense?

It's like white and black- you can appreciate the white more when you see the black next to it and vice versa.

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