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There are times when it feels the negative energy all around is overwhelming.  If we are not careful, we can get sucked in and add to the negative cloud with our own thoughts on the negativity we are experiencing.  How do we break free?  How do we own our responsibility for our personal energy and its impact on the whole without becoming a victim of our environment?

Is it possible to see, hear, and feel the negativity without judgment?  After all, judgement can be a dangerous slope downward towards increased negative energy of our own doing.  How do we escape it when we see the pain and fear inflicted on our loved ones, each other, and the environment?

In my heart I believe the answer is compassion.

Compassion sympathy for the suffering of others.


Whether the pain is being inflicted on you personally, or you are a witness to its ill effects, the way out is compassion.  Being able to see the suffering behind the negativity, makes it easier not to judge, not to be sucked in and taken over by your own emotional reaction.  Can you imagine a world where compassion ruled?

The beautiful side of bad decisions, negative reactions, and our own experience with pain and fear is that they allow us the gift of compassion.  Knowing that the root of negativity is pain, and knowing what pain feels like personally, it can be an open door to allowing our heart and compassion to be released.  Think of someone’s negativity being directed at you as a bubbling over of their personal pain.  You can forgive if you can remain conscious and have compassion for their suffering.  You can also forgive yourself for the times you’ve allowed your negative emotions to overtake your true self with compassion.

The more we practice seeing the negativity in the world with a compassionate heart, the greater the consciousness of the whole becomes.  You can be a catalyst for change towards a greater good with your love and compassion.  It is who you really are ♥

 


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07/08/2011 1:17am

You are sooooo right, Wendy!

Just the other day, I was with a very negative person for almost the whole day. And this person was in a particularly negative mood. And frankly, I was truly surprised at how much the negative mood began to wear at me. I'm usually pretty unaffected by others' moods. I'm usually pretty good about choosing to be happy even when others are choosing otherwise. But this time, I was being sucked down the proverbial drain.

Reading your post really hit home with me, Wendy. While I kept my cool, inwardly I was really starting to turn negative toward this person who kept complaining all day. It was grating on my nerves, which very seldom happens.

But being reminded about compassion is just what I needed to hear. If I would have had more compassion for this family member, it would have made a huge difference in what I was thinking, in how I interacted with her, and in how I felt. I will definitely keep this post in mind next time I start to feel bothered by someone else's bad mood.

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07/08/2011 9:26pm

@Ken-

I'm so glad :) I have been there lots of times, so I understand exactly what you mean. Keeping compassion in mind helps me so much when I can feel myself slipping. I hope you have a great weekend!

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