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My son thought the furniture could use some decorating.

The moments I am most happy are when I am appreciating the people in my life.


It is easy to get annoyed with people, but it is not where happiness lies.

In my home my kids seem to be constantly fighting over wanting the same thing. Wanting what the other one has. It is a battle of the little egos. Sometimes it feels like a 3-way ego pull. What Mom wants, what Big Brother wants, and what Little Sister wants. What I need to remember in those times is that our center is the same, and for that I am extremely grateful.

If you can appreciate your children through the fighting, and appreciate your spouse regardless of your differences you have accomplished a great act of love.

Love is what life is all about. See how many great acts of love you can accomplish today. See how many times you can appreciate instead of feel annoyed.

It is a gift to you and those souls you are blessed to have in your life.

 


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10/03/2011 8:25pm

Hi Wendy,

I certainly can feel your pain, I got 3 kids and witness this behavior all the time. Little brother wants what big brother has and baby sister wants what both older brothers have. Dad just wants a freaking vacation!

However, you are right we need to approach this kind of situation with a different attitude. I should appreciate these moments because it won't be too much longer and they will all be grown.

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10/04/2011 9:41am

@Todd,

lol! A vacation sounds great :) It is always a challenge for me to change my attitude when I am feeling annoyed but I am working on it. It is really rewarding when I am able to turn things around. I hope you have a great day!

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