It feels so good to be recognized for a job well done, or an inspired act of kindness. What about the millions of acts of love that occur each day that go completely unrecognized or acknowledged? Do they still have a positive impact on the world?

We’re taught early on in life to seek recognition. In this video I talk about the powerful impact of letting go of the need for outside approval. A simple choice that is life changing!
Thank you for watching, friends!

Your insight is incredibly valuable.

What are your thoughts? Do acts of kindness and love that go unrecognized count any less? Do they have less of an impact?

Let me know what you think. I’m really interested to hear!

With love & gratitude,
 Wendy Irene
 


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08/16/2012 09:00

If anything, I think unrecognized acts count more, because what really matters in the end is intent. It's probably the case that no act is truly altruistic, but I think it's fair to say that the unsung hero who does what he/she does because it's the right thing to do has a more positive impact on the world the celebrate hero who may or may not be doing it solely for the recognition. All in all, this is a great lesson that you teach!

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08/20/2012 10:27

Lisa,

I love that you mentioned intent. Intent is so very important. When I make decisions in my life my goal is to figure out what my true intention is. I love how you applied it to this message. Thank you!

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08/16/2012 13:39

I read an article about how our generation needs CONSTANT acknowlegment/praise. Likely because our parents gave us that as young children. I have had to learn that the unrecognized acts are often the most beautiful. And that even when I'm not getting "patted on the back" I still matter. Thank you for sharing your heart!

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08/20/2012 10:39

Monet,

That is really interesting about the need for constant praise. I've never thought about that before. Learning our own innate value is really important so we don't look for it in the wrong places.

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08/19/2012 08:26

Wendy: Acts of kindness that go unrecognized do not count any less in my opinion. I was after recognition, but I had to stop chasing recognition. I did this by finding a purpose bigger than the recognition I might or might not recieve. My acts of kindness might not get me a lot of recognition, but that is not going to stop me from doing what makes me happy.

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08/20/2012 10:49

William,

You are so right when you say the bigger purpose is what matters. That is what I think we should all focus on, because that is where the happiness really is. Thank you so much for sharing your wise words!

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08/19/2012 20:40

hi Wendy - you're right. I don't know if people do things for public recognition or just for the sake of it. But we should be doing more acts for the sake of just doing them to make a positive difference in the world. Sometimes, people do things for recognition, don't get it and then get upset that they were not recognized. Sort of defeats the purpose of doing good:) Enjoying your videos and wisdom weekly!

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08/20/2012 10:55

Thank you, Vishnu! Hopefully we can do our part to teach the next generation that it is not the recognition that matters in doing acts of kindness.

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08/26/2012 08:27

Hey firstly I like your videos and the ideas you have. Keep it up.

I agree that the only recognition we truly need, the only approval that should matter to us is that of ourselves. That to me is integrity. It is nice to please others but that shouldn't be our ultimate intention!

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Paloma
09/25/2012 16:43

I guess the difference is recognition versus encouragement. We all need to know at some point that the work we are doing is being received well. And occasionally, one needs to be told or acknowledged so that we know whether to continue or not.

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