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One morning last school year after dashing around the house trying to feed the kids, get their outdoor gear on, and convincing my two year old that she does in fact have to come with me to drop my son off at school and she cannot stay home-- You know how the morning rush goes... we were a few minutes behind schedule.

One the way we saw a poor little kitty on the side of the road, alive and injured.  She must have been hit by a car.  Probably someone on their way to work or maybe another parent trying to get the kids to school on time.  My heart broke for the poor thing and in that split second with the stream of cars, albeit slow moving, I didn’t know what to do and failed to make a quick decision.  I kept going.

To this day I do not feel good about my choice to keep driving.  Immediately I knew it was not the right choice for me.  Not one that I personally felt OK with. Two cars behind me someone pulled over and I was incredibly grateful the person made that decision. 

No one wants to be late for circle time at school and have to wait outside the door until circle time is over, but we are talking about the life of someone’s beloved pet.  If my son was late to school because we stopped and helped an injured animal I’m more than OK with that.  In fact, I think that life lesson is 100 times more important than being to school on time.


The Dilemma

Looking back, part of the reason I believe I did not pull over is because I didn’t know what I would do at that point.  I am not personally comfortable with picking up an injured animal, putting them in my car and driving them somewhere.  In a perfect world there would be someone you could call to help, but who???

When I lived in the city of Vancouver I very rarely, if ever, saw injured animals on the side of the road.  Now that I live in the country, sadly it is a regular occurrence.  There are often deer on the side of the road and other wildlife that have been hit.  From what I am told, Idaho state law says if you hit an animal you are responsible for moving it to the side of the road so that it is out of the way for other cars.

Fortunately, this has not happened to me up until now, but it could.  Accidents happen.  What if you hit a deer and it is still alive injured on the road?  The thought of dragging an injured deer to the side of the road scares me.  I have heard how dangerous a kicking, injured deer can be.  Is there someone you can call for help?

My guess is that 911 does not want you clogging the lines with phone calls to help with injured animals.  I want to be prepared for the next time I find myself in a similar situation, so I can make an informed decision and do my best to help.  Is there a place you can call for help if you see an injured dog or cat?  What about if you hit wildlife and it needs to be moved?  Is it crazy to want a state emergency line for animals???


Please tell me – What would you do?

 


Comments

08/02/2011 7:07am

i understand how you feel dear
i guess i will look for someone who can help if i cant then i will call him whenever i face that situation

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08/02/2011 9:28am

Oh dear, I thought you could just call the state troopers. If it was in a town/city- I would look up the nearest animal control on my smartphone... if you don't have a smart phone- I'd stop at the nearest (safest) grocery store/restaurant and ask for a phone book- and get the animal control that way (?).

I don't know - I'm just a city girl now living in a more rural area but not nearly as rural as you so I wouldn't know if those ideas could work or not.

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08/02/2011 7:05pm

@Farouk & @Laural -

Thank you so much for your support guys! It is a tough situation. I'm going to remember to try animal control. I hope you're having a great week!

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08/03/2011 7:50am

Wendy, this is so hard. I think I too would not have stopped, unless I were not with the children, in which case I might have, to assess the situation. Particularly if I'd had gloves & a blanket or some other way to safely handle the animal. Of course my heart would break & I'd probably go weak in the knees if the poor thing were struggling.

When we were in Maine, we personally collided with 4 deer with our car. Each time we phoned the police & each time I felt absolutely horrible. One time, a nearby homeowner came out & asked if he could take the deer, or if we were going to take it! O_o

In the case of a dog or a cat though, I'd think the local animal shelter might be a better bet than 9-1-1.

The children & I witnessed a squirrel being hit & killed right in front of our house a couple of years ago. It was very hard on all of us, but it was right in our face, so we had to deal with it. We chose to take some sidewalk chalk & write a "prayer" and draw a picture of the squirrel & thank him for his contribution to our time here on earth. It at least helped me to feel better.

The fact that you wrote this post tells me your heart is in the right place with this, and I consider your post a tribute to the cat's spirit; your own prayer of sorts.

Forgive yourself, mama.

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08/03/2011 3:38pm

Aw, I hate situations like this. I read this yesterday when I got into work. On my commute yesterday morning I saw a fox on the side of the road, dying. I was so sad and troubled by it (even though foxes would eat my dog in a second if they had a chance)- it is so hard to see a living thing suffering. So, your post is quite timely. I didn't stop but the poor little fox stayed with me all day.

I don't think it's crazy to want an emergency line for animals. I agree with a PP- your heart is definitely in the right place and you can't beat yourself up.

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08/03/2011 6:49pm

@Kelly & @Katie,

Thank you so much ladies!! You touched my heart with your sweet comments. I really appreciate it. Sending {{hugs}}

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