Recently, I came across a great idea on MindBodyGreen. The intuitive side of me lit up and I thought this needs to be shared! Do you know what’s better than a ‘to do’ list? A ‘to be’ list. Personally, I love the idea of a ‘to be’ list for manifesting the person you wish to be. And truly, what’s more important than that? Being the person you wish to be is, in my mind, far more important than any particular task you may or may not accomplish.

The ‘to be’ list is a great way to stay aligned with what’s truly important to you. When you consider doing tasks, you can ask yourself: Is this helping me become more of the person I want to be, or taking away from it? Feeling heart-centered and aligned in your day to day life, is for me a great source of joy. It’s so easy to allow life to distract us, and the ‘to be’ list can help us stay focused on what’s important to us. 

Your ‘to be’ list might look like:

writer
gardener
more attentive parent
loving and supportive spouse
traveler

Whatever it is you wish to be write it down. There is magic in written words. Keep this list close by and remember to check it or update regularly and ask yourself, am I being the person I want to be? If not, how can I change that in the now or what steps can I take to move closer to becoming the highest version of myself?

I’m sending all who read this light my friends, and the wish for you to be joyous and aligned with the highest version of yourself. 

With love,
Wendy Irene

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Whenever you see money on the ground, even if it’s a penny, pick it up.You can respect that it’s still money. Plus the fairies (nature angels) don’t like to see trash on the ground. You could always try starting a donation jar for any found money to keep the positive energy going.

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I’m going to be honest with you. I created this video back in the dead of winter, hence zero color in my skin, haha. I did not share it though because I didn’t think most people would be open to the ideas I talk about in the video. It goes against what you’re taught. It goes against the belief systems ingrained in you that are responsible for molding the way your life looks. You are what you believe, and isn’t it fair to say that working really hard to have a good life is one of the most frequent things we hear?

Let me just backtrack one second, and say that working hard and being in the flow of creativity are completely different things in my book. They carry a whole different energy or vibration. Creating in the flow is channeling the divine, and it releases a feeling of joy afterwards, not struggle. Therefore, I would not put creative pursuits that you allow to easily flow through you under the same umbrella as working hard, although some people might. If the creativity is not coming through you that’s OK, it’s about showing up again tomorrow and saying I’m here universe, I am an open channel, please use me as a vessel to serve your love and light. If you’re feeling struggle happen within, instead of forcing just sit there in the now and breathe, and appreciate the beauty that’s around you. Everything in life comes in waves. Have fun and play in them just like the dolphins do. Let go of your expectations and simply feel alive. Feel your heart beating.

The important things in life, the things that you really love will come to you as if by magic. It is my personal experience that you do not need to reach, and reach, and search, you’re only pushing the positive energy away and building walls when you do that. Be as happy as you can right now, doing what you love and that which makes you feel fulfilled, which often involves serving others. All that’s required is that you leave your heart open and have faith that good things will come to you. Follow your inner guidance system, your intuition, your north star. If it tells you to be somewhere at a certain time, go there. If it tells you to join a new class or go hang out with a friend, go. If it gives you an action step to take, do it so you’re not getting in your own way. Other than that it’s the art of allowing. Allow a life you love to be magnetically drawn to you by letting go of all your expectations and just dancing in the light. There is nothing as magical as letting go and having complete trust in the unknown. That’s when stars align, so do what you can to be happy where you are here and now, exactly as you are, and I promise you things will line up all on their own. It’s called grace.

YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/5rC0z6Ob5aQ

Do you ever find yourself feeling really stressed out? OK, I know you do. It happens to me all the time. May I share with you what I've learned about stress?

Stress means STOP!

As soon as you feel that buzzing in your head, that ickiness rising up in your body, that mountain of overwhelm, STOP. Stop doing everything and simply be. Breathe. When these negative feelings arise in our body it's a sign that we are focusing too much on the doing and not enough on the being.

Deep down we all know our soul did not journey to this peaceful paradise earth to be a stressed out messed, never living in the moment. No, we came here to enjoy life, to feel love, and to pass that light on. Stress is a sign that we are not on the right path in this very moment in time, and we need to get back on track by stopping doing everything and allowing our soul to return home to the now.

When you feel stress coming on, tell yourself that's my sign to stop and come back to the moment. Sit down and gaze at the sky, notice all the sights around you, listen intently to the sounds that surround you, maybe you can even hear the birds singing in the background if you're quiet enough. All of these types of activities return you back to the present moment where you belong.

It's up to each one of us to prioritize being over doing. Being allows your vibrations to rise. Being is where the joy of the moment is found. You can do it dear one, it isn't impossible, say no to stress and yes to being. Let your body tell you when it's time. You know exactly when that feeling arises that's saying this is too much I need to stop, so give yourself permission and stop. You don't want to miss out on living fully. This moment now is all that counts.

Say it with me, stress means stop!

We are all here for you, cheering you on.
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With so much love,
Wendy Irene

I have a little secret I have not revealed before that I use throughout my day to keep my thoughts positive and uplifted. Our thoughts create our reality and affect our vibration, which draws to us that which is similar in our lives. Like attracts like when we’re taking about energy, so if you start thinking beautiful thoughts regularly, you’ll start creating a beautiful reality.
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Watch and find out my secret!

YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/4Xc2dwweifk
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I actually have two of these in my house so I don’t have to walk far to find one, ha!

Wishing you many blessings and all of your wishes come true.

​Thanks for watching. Pass it along or give it a thumbs up if you like it.

With love,
Wendy Irene

If life is hard who is creating that reality? Are we victims to everything outside of us, or can we change the trajectory of our lives from the inside out? Can we create a beautiful reality starting with how we view things? Can we make our lives positive with a positive attitude? I believe we can.

We first need to get into the nitty gritty of our beliefs and see where they are holding us back. Do we believe life is supposed to be hard work and not a lot of fun, or do we believe life is joyous and a beautiful expression of our soul? Every belief you have that is limiting your life, and the joy you could be feeling, the joy that is your birthright, needs to be uprooted at its source. Where did these limiting beliefs come from, and how did we get ourselves so entangled in them? When did we forget our creative power and the abundant nature of this gigantic universe?

Every time you say something to yourself that is limiting, pause and ask yourself why do I believe this? Why am I telling myself this? Is this really what I want to create? If what you are saying to yourself is not the reality you want to create than it's time to change it. It's time to recognize what we DO want to create. It's time to let go of being the victim and actually own our power, take responsibility for ourselves and our lives.

Your life can be anything you want it to be. Let me say that again, your life can be anything you want it to be. When you tell yourself otherwise you create that. Yes it sounds simple but sometimes those are the very hardest things for us to understand. How can it be so easy? Please dear one, resist being victim to your own drama you're creating in your head. We all do it. Separate yourself from it and these limiting beliefs will no longer rule your life.

You've experienced what you don't want so you are fully capable of understanding what it is that you do desire, and are now able to go forth and create that. See the blessings in all of it. How would you know what you do want to create if you didn't know what’s not right for you? Don't fool yourself into thinking what you want to create has to be hard because it doesn't. If you say it's hard to achieve, it will be hard to achieve. This is an abundant universe with more than enough for everyone. We all need to let go of looking at things through the eyes of lack and struggle because it's just not true. We are creating it.

Ask yourself what it is you do want to create, and know it is already so, and you don't have to see it as a struggle to get there, unless it's a struggle that you want?

With love & light,
Wendy Irene

p.s. I love the message Food Matters sends and I'm thrilled to have created a recipe for their site. My kids love this one! Would be so happy if you checked it out. Creamy Cilantro Pasta Sauce Recipe

​The world is waiting for what you have to say. It is no accident that you are here in this time and space to share your message with the world. The things you are passionate about are by design, and your light is every bit as important as everyone else’s. Won’t you please share your light with the world? We need you!

I, for one, can’t wait to hear what you are passionate about. Leave a comment with the first thing that comes to mind.
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​With love & appreciation,
Wendy Irene

We all have the power to create the life of our dreams. This is our birthright. Our weakness comes in sometimes not fully knowing or understanding how this creative power, or you might call it the law of attraction, actually works. We are such powerful creative beings that there are times when we are creating exactly what we don’t want in life. You might be wondering how we can know the difference.

You hear the word manifesting said a lot, but how can we manifest the good we want in our lives? Simply put, it comes down to the vibrational frequency we are resonating at, and this is especially important when we are trying to manifest.
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Watch the video below where I talk about being a vibrational match for the life of your dreams.

Thank you for watching, friends!

Do you have any great manifesting tools that you use? Have you tried to manifest from a place of lack before? What are your experiences with raising your vibration?

Share your thoughts in the comments below.
 
With love,
Wendy Irene

Today, I want to encourage you to make time for the activities that bring you joy. Schedule these in first because there is always more work that can be done. Work will fill up every moment you allow it, so it is important that you put your joy first.

Get still, and ask your heart what it longs to do today? Have you ever noticed when you are really quiet and still in your home, the humming of all the electronics kind of sounds like crickets? How often do you allow yourself to be still and enjoy and appreciate this moment that you are in?

If you prioritize joy, your life will only get better and better, because with the law of attraction like attracts like. Do you want to attract more work, or do you want to attract the things that bring you true happiness? If you want to be happy you have to get about the business of incorporating things into your day that make you feel good and beam with light.

I want for you to have the most amazing day, and I know in order for this to happen you need to value yourself enough to put your joy first. Yes, this is not what you typically hear day in and day out. You're told to work hard, but today this post right here and right now is giving you permission to put that struggle belief aside, and instead enjoy your life. After all, it's what you're really here to do.
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With so much love and light,
Wendy Irene